Category: life
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happy monday
Last week was a bit difficult for me. In writing my other blog, I dredged up memories I thought I had processed and moved forward from. As I typed out my family experiences growing up, and the clinical applications of addictive families, I was surprised at becoming so emotional. Allowing my mind to wander among…
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i’ll take Rubens
It’s Friday and I am going to have to rant a little bit. I am so tired of America’s obsession with ultra thin, anorexic glorification, while bombarding us with unhealthy food ads and unattainable photoshopped goddesses of thinness. Full disclosure, I have spent most of my life watching my weight climbing up and down the…
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about hoarding
My Mother was a champion hoarder. In the final years of her life, I took the responsibility of dissembling the Mt. Everest of six or seven decades of her inability to discard virtually any item. In my sister blogs, I share my experiences and a psychological perspective of hoarding. Here, I will share my technique…
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pie, pi, π
I’ve done some research. Today is a universally accepted holiday, March 14, π day. While I detest Hallmark capitalist proliferated made-up special days, this I am considering celebrating. Pi Day, founded in 1988 (wow, I am really late), celebrates the mathematical ratio of a circle’s circumference to its diameter, π, 3.14, hence, March 14. Welcome…
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goals / aspirations / dreams
I’ve been goal oriented, type A, for as long as I can remember. I was going to change the world, or at least be in the forefront. It hasn’t happened. After too many decades, I see still abounding: poverty, injustice, political deceitful quagmires, broken relationships, declining education, mental illness, family dysfunction, etc. It’s become time…
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?’s for a tuesday
– How often to blog? – What if I have nothing to say? – Do blogs have to have a guiding focus? – What’s the point of dusting? – Who are sigma males and why are they taking over alpha’s? – Why do adults like to color? – Why do we jump from 10 degrees…
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3 am
For fellow 3 am waker-uppers. I have discover waking up at 3 a.m. is not uncommon and has been thoroughly investigated (google is the absolute truth for successive generations and I am learning to comply) Here are some possibilities to consider: – You are cycling from deep sleep to lighter sleep – Finally, less noise,…
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leaping
Leap day suggestions: – end a toxic relationship, the anniversary remembrance comes every 4 years – find something that costs or ends in 29 cents – get 29 dollar bills and spend frivolously – get a jump rope or small trampoline and leap 29 times – walk 29 steps 29 times (that’s approximately 900 steps)…
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24 hour detox
That would be the digital detox I am planning to attempt. I think we all should. As a social scientist, I purchased my first computer 40 years ago. Oh the miracle. A person could type ten pages and easily edit. Rejoicing that liquid correction goo would become obsolete, I completed my first advanced degree, thrilled…